If you are pregnant, or think you may be pregnant, in an unintended pregnancy, you may have a floodgate of emotions and questions. What do you want to do? Do you want to parent, create an adoption plan, or have an abortion? Each decision carries its own set of unique results and will determine your next steps. Talking to a patient advocate may help you to sort out your thoughts and emotions and to think through each option.
Your three pregnancy options include:
Parenting. A decision to carry a pregnancy to term and raise the child. Many women would like to parent but they may have concerns about how to make that happen. You and your partner may choose to parent together, co-parent or you may parent alone. You will have many decisions to make but you do not have to make them all at once or alone. A patient advocate can assist in developing a plan, provide access to community resources and answer your questions.
Adoption. A decision to carry the pregnancy to term and to make an adoption plan involves relinquishing parental rights after the delivery. You may choose the level of involvement you may prefer. These options include: open (usually an on-going relationship), semi-open (usually letters and photos exchanged) and closed (no communication). A patient advocate can explain the different options, answer your questions and help you to develop an adoption plan.
Abortion. A decision to terminate or abort a pregnancy involves the use of either medication or a surgical procedure. Which abortion method depends on how far along the pregnancy has progressed. One of our nurses can answer your questions and provide accurate health information and education about the abortion procedure(s) available to you, including any possible health risks.
According to a recent Public Opinion Strategies survey, the most pressing need of women deciding about an unplanned pregnancy is sorting out their thoughts and feelings. A patient advocate can provide information on your options that will help you in your decision-making process. Whatever you decide should be in line with your beliefs and values. Ultimately, the decision is yours.
Support Circle exists to serve the woman who is unsure of her pregnancy decision by providing time, space, support so that you make the right decision for you. No matter what choice you make about your unintended pregnancy, our options, services and support are free.
Three pregnancy options when facing an unplanned pregnancy.